I suggest you leave before he/she does or start asking questions !

Many cant sense when there's an end near, some mistake it for a bump in the road ! lol
let me open your eyes, when there is trouble in paradise alot of things change and to avoid conflict many of us ignore it ... if you ignore it don't complain when your felt in the dark !

How do you know when they are opting to leave ? i'm gonna list a few hints

•  Everyday they start an arguement of some sort with out reason. Aim? to make you unhappy or displeased, which would result in you distancing yourself, giving them time to think about the next move!
• All of sudden suggesting that you change your ways.
• Constantly comparing you with other people ... alot of them laugh when they are doing it to hide truth, but really know they are just being honest.
• Avoids questions about your furture together, every attempt they get. Avoiding personally questions in general !
• They no longer have time for you ! you should know if someone wants to be with, they will do whatever to make it happen.
• They have a new set of friends to which they dont want to introduce you to or talk about ! they're simply creating a new life without you, exploring what it would feel like.
• Your no longer able to sit beside him/her when their using there phone. whether it be making calls or texting. 
• Has specific time of their day when they can't conversate with you.
• Stop answering your phone calls and texts with urge and are completely ok if you do the same.
• They act like your paranoid or over reacting when an argument surfaces. Ever so willing to take the blame ! reason ? loss of interest.
• Laugh at you most of the time rather than laugh with you.
• Doesn't have your back anymore. how ? well when in a public discussion normally when your wrong your significant other would avoid conversation or try to defend you, its rare they go against you ! This as something to do with protection and trust.

Thats that ! if you have any red flags please share and i hope you can relate !

 Ooo and i must tell you ask questions don't just up and leave and then blame me lol ask questions to get answers.

Am i ready for a "Committed Relationship"?

So my take on this topic, personally speaking i don't think i am. Why ? well i think i wonder too much about what it would be like if i were single and disengaged ! I think at this age i should be looking for someone to settle with, but when i do get close to someone capable of engaging in a committed relationship. I often find myself making excuses, or getting the feeling am being tied down. When this happens i run to the nearest "EXIT" ... whats the nearest exit for me, telling premeditated lies like " i'm still inlove with my ex" lol, i know its horrible but i swear its better than "i want to explore" or "relationships are claustrophobic" i think =/.

That's basically my point of view on that personally, anyways i have researched, so to speak and gathered a few other reasons that may help you come to the conclusion as to if you are or are not ready for a committed relationship.
Well i'm more familiar with persons not ready for a committed relationship,so below i have listed them, the opposite of this list is those persons who are fully ready for that of a committed relationship, i thought i was rather pointless to list both.

SO MY FELLOW READER you are not ready for a committed relationship if ....

1.  Your still trying to find yourself ! if its that you haven't figured out you, then how can you commit to getting to know someone else, when you haven't committed to getting to know yourself.
2. You have no plans or expectations for the growth of the relationship. In other words you haven't put much thought into it.
3. You find yourself lusting at other individuals, not being able to control your sexual drive
4. Just got out of a relationship whether it be a month or five years ! take a break
5. You feel as though you haven't explored enough ! want to rise you number (y)
6. Fear of commitment ... this is something you, yourself need to figure out before you go into a committed relationship to avoid flee and  breaking hearts.
7. Confused about what you want ! i struggle with this, even when i get what i thought i wanted. I still question if its really what i want lol. How i handle it ? i go with the flow and see what happens.
8. If your still in love with your ex, its obvious your not ready for a committed relationship.
9. If your idol at some point in life was George Clooney, your are most definitely not ready for a committed relationship and should stop fooling girls/boys that you are #notnice -_-.
10. You don't see the worth of being in one, when you can have all you want now and you can't see how a commitment can better that. I say you review yourself
11. If you avoid drama and conflicts ! ps in every relationship both those are evident, if not something is wrong, because no one smiles all day everyday !